5 Tips to Make Your Pet’s Separation Anxiety Better
We know leaving your furry friend at home can sometimes be the most challenging part of your day! Whether it’s a dog who howls as you close the door or a cat who gives you the cold shoulder upon your return, pet separation anxiety is a real struggle for both pets and their humans. Fortunately, there are ways to ease the worry and make separation easier for everyone involved.
Below are some tried-and-true tips that have helped us, and we hope they help you too!
Separation Anxiety 101
Separation anxiety in pets is more common than you might think. Estimates reveal up to 40% of dogs and 13% of cats are challenged by this anxious behavior.
But what exactly is it?
Separation anxiety is a behavioral condition in which your pet becomes distressed when separated from you, its favorite human. Common signs include:
- Barking and whining.
- Meowing, crying or moaning.
- Destructive behavior and
- Even going to the bathroom indoors (or outside the litter box) despite being housetrained.
Recognizing these signs early is the first step to effectively addressing the issue. Next, let’s examine the five tips for improving your pet’s separation anxiety.
VCA Animal Hospitals: Separation Anxiety in Dogs
Tip 1: Gradual Departures and Arrivals
One of the best ways to reduce separation anxiety is by making your departures and arrivals less dramatic. It’s tempting to shower our pets with attention right before we leave, mistakenly thinking it will help them feel better. But in reality, it makes them more anxious!
So keep things low-key when coming and wait a few minutes before greeting them when you come home. The less of a big deal you make, the calmer they will stay!
Tip 2: Practice Short Absences
If your pet’s anxiety is severe, start with short absences and gradually increase the time you’re away. This technique, known as desensitization, can help tremendously. Leave for just five minutes and then gradually work up to longer periods. Over time and with a lot of patience, your pet will learn that you always come back, and there’s no need for them to panic. Remember to keep it low-key.
Tip 3: Create a Safe Space
Creating a designated safe space for your pet can work wonders. Maybe it’s a cozy corner in the living room with his favorite blanket. This safe spot will become your dog’s familiar and comforting environment while you’re gone. Make sure the space is quiet and filled with things your pet loves – a favorite toy, blanket, a piece of your clothing, or a stuffed Kong to keep him happy and occupied.
PetMD: Separation Anxiety in Cats
Tip 4: Use Puzzles and Toys
Keeping your pet mentally stimulated can significantly reduce anxiety; interactive toys and puzzles can be a lifesaver in keeping your pet engaged and distracted during your absence.
Tip 5: Calming Aids
Sometimes, pets need a little extra help to calm down. Various calming aids are available, from pheromone diffusers to anxiety wraps like the Thundershirt. This wrap applies gentle, constant pressure, similar to swaddling a baby, which can help them feel more secure and less anxious at home alone.
Conclusion
Separation anxiety can be challenging, but with the right strategies (like the five above), it’s manageable. Every pet is different, so it might take some trial and error to find what works best for yours. But with time, patience, and lots of love, your pet will learn to feel more secure and confident, even when you’re not around.
Also, it’s okay to seek professional help! There’s no shame in doing what’s best for your furry family member’s best life!
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is your one-stop shop for all things pets!
We’ve had challenging times with pets, so we understand!
Whether it’s engaging and interactive toys and puzzles or creating
a comfortable and safe space for your anxious pet
(with the Dirty Dog Large Bed pictured below),
we want to help you!
Feel free to call us at 423-726-2313,
or email Myra at Myra@TinyDogLLC.com
or Kevin at Kevin@TinyDogLLC.com today!
